Following Jermaine Dupri’s recent appearance on Drink Champs, where he told N.O.R.E. and DJ EFN that he witnessed The Notorious B.I.G. pull a gun on his then-girlfriend Lil Kim, the pint-size rapper has corroborated the abuse in their relationship.
Kim stopped by Hot 97’s Ebro In The Morning earlier this week and opened up her “very violent relationship” with the late rap legend.
“It’s not wrong with [Jermaine Dupri] tellin’ the story; it’s a part of history,” Kim said. “It happened. The story is not exactly how he said it, but it’s very close to the truth. We did have a very violent relationship. I hate that, for a while, that was all I attracted: violent [men]. It is what it is. He was everything. You know how it is when you’re in the industry: the guys can do whatever they want, but you can’t do shit. You can’t do nothing.”
Kim, who just released “Took Us A Break” on Friday (November 3), then went into her account of what actually transpired that day.
“First of all, when I was going to do the song with Jermaine, they contacted [Junior M.A.F.I.A. manager Lance ‘Un’ Rivera]; Biggie wasn’t even involved in that,” she explains. “He put his self there. Like, he came because he just wanted to make sure I wasn’t gonna have any eyes for Usher, or Jermaine, you know. [Laughs] And everybody knows I get busy with the pen, but I loved when Big used to come and persuade some of my raps, ’cause he’s the freakin’ greatest; why wouldn’t I? Of course! But everybody knows…all my hit records, [‘All About The Benjamins’], ‘Get Money,’ ‘Crush On You’ — all me.
“Puffy can tell you; all these people can tell you,” she continues. “But the influence that he had on my raps and my music … it made me lazy sometimes if he was around. ‘Cause I know if I’m sittin’ there and I’m stuck I’m four bars, he’s gonna jump in. He always wanted me to stand on my own, so Hard Core was mainly me, and a couple of songs that he influenced. But when we were together, it always turned into a lover’s quarrel or a lover’s nest. Although I wanted him to be there to make sure my shit was tight, a lot of times it wasn’t the best thing. That day was one of the days when it probably wasn’t the best thing.”
As the topic came to a close, Kim confirmed that Biggie tried to seduce her cousin, Latisha “Lala” Crosby.
“That is a true story,” she said. “He tried to sleep with … there was a girl that was actually on my Countdown To Lockdown show. She’s like my family. And yeah, that story’s true. He said something to the effect of, ‘She asked me for $400. I told her, what’s she gonna do for that $400?’ I think that he was hiding the fact that he was trying to expose that he didn’t think she was my real friend, even as a family member.”
Despite the tumultuous relationship Kim had with Biggie, she ended the discussion on a positive note.
“Listen, a lot us are not proud about certain parts of our past and the way we might’ve handled situations,” she said. “Now, I’m going to tell you. B.I.G. is a Gemini. All I know is Geminis and I’ve learned how to really deal with Geminis … they’re good people, too, but when they turn into that other person, it’s so hard to identify who that other person is. Biggie was like that. He’d love you to death. I know he loved me to death.”
Watch the full interview above.
Who cares…….
Anybody who matters!!!
Let’s all take a minute to remember the fact that Diddy once said on record that Biggie “was not only the greatest rapper of all time, but also one of the greatest people of all time”. I believe this quote was on Biggie’s episode of VH1 Behind the Music. He beat up women and more than likely had Tupac set up and possibly put up the money to have him killed. Biggie was a gluttonous scumbag.
Pac got himslelf killed…Its not a conspiracy.
Everybody should boycott Biggie for being a woman beater!!!
He’s dead… can’t really boycott him…
Interesting read. She stated “I hate that, for a while, that was all I attracted: violent [men].”. Now I will jump in and say one does not simply attract a certain kind of person in that sense. It’s the individual that is attracted to those of similar traits.
bless her heart. I hope the best for her, I hope she gets her career interests back in order. I guess she can perform her old songs and go on the 90s nostalgia tours. Also she could probably host a radio show somewhere, maybe syndicated, or maybe one of those stations in the NYC area can hire her.
That’s why the only Christopher we acknowledge is Columbus..
Are you completely stupid? Ebro asked her about it and she answered him.
Do you have brain damage?
Geminis
I just read all the comments… funny how nobody mentions how erri that photo of B.I.G. & Kim is. I personally couldn’t never date a woman that tiny. Especially if she looks like she is 12 years old and your 6ft.2. Looks so wrong!!
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1. First you dont write your own lyrics.
2. Do you have an album coming out and now you start complaining about bBiggie. Without Biggie you would be a nobody.
Read between the lines Kim hasn’t been relevant in years and she stated how Biggie wrote a lot of her hits how she leaned on him now she doesn’t have him so now she trying to ride off his fame still to this day it want work! Sex sells but what these females must learn the industry use them and find the next after Kim Nicki and now Cardi B and soon someone else
The industry uses everybody. Lil’ Kim can and still does write her own shit, and she does it well.
This is the same thot that went to a industry party full of music executive and gave them head and had to get rushed to the hospital for swallowing too much semen lol! These hoez will do and say anything nowadays to get paid!
Are you a fucking child?
You gotta be one of the the dumbest idiots to ever punch in a comment(&) dumbass retard slowhead shitty booty son of a crackhead lol
Sidebar: When is there going to be an expose’ of the sexism and exploitation that goes on in the hip-hop/rap industry, like what’s going on in Hollywood now? The “pimp” dynamic has overwhelmed the culture where so many people just look at it in a casual manner of how women are treated.
100%
im really curious as 2 why this ugly alien is spouting off about her an big’s relationship. when he was alive an she was makin that money that she eventually used to disfigure herself from his influence not one word about abuse. he been dead over 20 years an the bird is chirpin. do us all a favor kim an ask the plastic surgeons 2 sow your hoodrat mouth closed. you’re truly a troll of the nasty kind.
2 paki and the notorious F.A.T dun been dead who cares now