Celebrity relationships flourish, unravel and accomplish everything in between all while in the public eye. And sometimes fans can forget that famous couples actually have the right to common decency too.
Just ask Ariana Grande, who recently amassed nearly 150,000 retweets for recounting an encounter with a fan of her beau Mac Miller that left her feeling “sick and objectified.”
Here’s the full story:
“went to pick up food with my boyfriend tonight and a young boy followed us to the car to tell Mac that he’s a big fan.
He was loud and excited and by the time M was seated in the drivers seat he was literally almost in the car with us. I thought all of this was cute and exciting until he said ‘ariana is sexy as hell man i see you, i see you hitting that!!!’
*pause*
Hitting that? The fuck??
This may not seem like a big deal to some of you but I feel sick and objectified. I was also sitting right there when he said it. (?) I’ve felt really quiet and hurt since that moment. Things like [sic] happen all the time and are the kinds of moments that contribute to women’s sense of fear and inadequacy. I am not a piece of meat that a man gets to utilize for his pleasure. I’m an adult human being in a relationship with a man who treats me with love and respect.
It hurts my heart that so many young people are so comfortable enough using these phrases and objectifying women with such ease.
I felt like speaking out about this one experience tonight because I know very well that most women know the sensation of being spoken about in an uncomfortable way publicly or taken advantage of publicly by a man. We need to talk about these moments openly because they are harmful and they live on inside of us as shame. We need to share and be vocal when something makes us feel uncomfortable because if we don’t, it will just continue. We are not objects or prizes. We are QUEENS.”
Also to the “big fan’s” discredit, this is absolutely not the message that Mac preached on his recently released album, The Divine Feminine.
The only way to not validate those comments is not to respond. Stop being sensitive and grow the fuck up. If you don’t want people commenting on your relationship then don’t put it on display and publicize it for the world to see.
I’m rocking with her on that one, young bol was way outta line, that wild disrespectful. Oh well this is how society works now a days
Spoken like a Hillary supporter.
So Trump supporters are admitting that they’re sexist?
The comment is rude…not sexist. It’s simply inappropriate to discuss the sex lives of strangers. What does gender have to do with this?
U r a queer
shut up, lay back and let him destroy your vocal cords with some hardcore throat fucking.
Her vocal cords already sound damaged.
Mah Nicca, that’s what I’m talking bout. Hogtie this c unt and destroy that throat. Make her turn blue
She has song on the radio with the followinf chorus: “a little less conversation, a little more touch my body.” Maybe she can explain that one before people assume she’s a piece of meat???
Her hit song right now is LITERALLY about being “hit” so hard she’s walking from side to side after … That being said, damn I would break her in half
Get over it your a celebrity in the lime light that puts her relationship out there stop crying
i refuse to believe this girl is of age….smh
Big Sean thinks otherwise chick…
Let me tell you , Ariana is sexy as hell, I definitely see Mac hittin’ that!
Yeah I guess she isn’t objectifying herself with lyrics like those from side to side and “a little less conversation and a little more touch my body”. Not to mention that wigga Macs lyrics.
Mac miller would beat ur ass
Trent delete my comment again I’ll slice your mothers throat.
I have a dick, you have a mouth, uh! My nuts on your tonsils.
She needs to quit with her self righteous, idealistic, high falutin’ bullshit.
RIP George
Guys.. guys.. Please…. It’s a women that had said this dumb shit, let’s move on. Don’t give it much thought cause her next video will have more revealing body parts to entice our labido and then blame us for being animals. This dumb bitch hurt.
she barely has any meat on her tho lol
Ariana Grande, i see your face and think Mac Miller’s dicks been all over it and his dicks been in your mouth……this is the truth, how do you feel objectified?
The most double standard shit I’ve heard in a long time…LMAOOOO.
When she old like Madonna she going to be wish somebody was “hitting ” that !!! lol
maybe if she wouldn’t suck her own finger on every video trying to give us a boner , maybe and just maybe people would look at her with a different perspective
Shut up ho. Like miller does anything but that. Is he gonna marry you?
Stfu bitch
This really coming from the chick always wearing little mini skirts and heals looking like she just finished shooting a School Girl Porno?
Love how these women use sex to sell then get mad when men view them as sexual objects
this is why we need someone like Suga Free to set women straight
I miss Suga Free, he was always truth!
… says the half-naked, donut-licking, not-caring-about-who-she-gets-sick bitch. She doesn’t act right but she wants ppl to take her seriously
she sells sex….the nerve of this chick
Mac Miller knew the deal, he probably told her to chill out over the issue and she went an ran with it to draw attention to herself…and that kid was paying Mac a compliment, not her.
Shut the Fuck up bitch!! Hate people who think they better than they really are, stupid feminist stupid bullshit!! Maybe if you didn’t objectify yourself then others wouldn’t too!! Respect yourself like a revolutionary educated woman would them others will too. Media hos don’t deserve shit!!
This is exactly the type of idiot bitch that needs to be gang ra ped
….are you psychotic?
Are you? The truth hurts fuck nigga.
How did big Sean downgrade to no talent ass Jhene Aiko? Don’t care, she can’t sing for shit…
LMFAO everything she does is sexualized she literally sells sex and sells being objectified yet is mad when she’s objectified oh shit my stomach hurts from laughing at the stupidity. Just shut the fuck up keep looking sexy and shaking that ass for us all and we will keep your dumb ass rich thank you and goodnight
fuck off. fucking haters.
Dang, I’d slap that girls ass and show her how to be a good girl.
fucking retards.
1. Sing things like “touch my body” and make videoclips with rocketboobs.
2. wait for fans who like that, and say that out loud.
3. Transform in a hysterical feminist who is offended by people who think about sex when they see you, because everywhere they see you half-naked!
thank you : )
Amen bro; They’re f#%$n half-naked half the time, add botox, silicon, saline and paint and display themselves in the market as what they complain about: a sex object. Pure fembabble.
Ok Im all about resisting the objectification of women. As a male, I used to get hard in math class, so that is our burden to deal with. We can “see” this stuff in our heads long before a female even says a word. It will be a long time before that evolves out of our species, so it is really something that a women needs to slap down in real time, but also help these poorly raised boys to deal with and to express their feelings in a less lame way. If you are a Mom.. teach your boys not to talk that way in front of girls. It will not get them anything, ever, and they will not have kids. My wife is my queen, my princess, and my best friend. My daughter sees how we get along and knows that this is the right way to interact. Ariana Grande is a like this, but she makes money from acting like a sex symbol.. .. she will have to teach us the difference.. and while she deserves to be treated well just like every other girl, she also ‘expects’ it. Not every girl does. If you are a Dad, make sure your girls know they are precious, and that they deserve the best from a male. Im out!