Sexxy Red has stirred up chatter among her fans and followers after sharing a jaw-dropping revelation about her post-pregnancy sex life.
Taking to her Instagram Stories on Sunday (March 25), the St. Louis rapper expressed that she doesn’t feel the need to refrain from having sex after giving birth.
“[Doodie Lo] gone look me dead in the face and say ‘you ain’t wait 6 weeks did you’ sure didn’t bookie what’s wrong [laughing face emojis]” she wrote.
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When The Neighborhood Talk reposted a screenshot of her unapologetic admission, she commented on it with: “Baby I woulda got cracked in my hospital bed if I could have… what’s going on?”
It’s important to note that even though there’s no specific timeframe regarding sex after after giving birth, Mayo Clinic states that “many health care providers recommend waiting to have sex until four to six weeks after delivery, regardless of the delivery method. The risk of having a complication after delivery is highest during the first two weeks after delivery. But waiting will also give your body time to heal.”
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“This is gross, you’re literally still bleeding,” one person responded, while another added: “So many women, well men for that matter too, operating from a place of sexual trauma. Feeling as if you can’t wait until your body heals to engage in sex is not healthy. No discipline suggests a lot.”
A third social-media user questioned why the couple didn’t consider other ways to be intimate, writing: “So her partner wasn’t concerned or interested in just giving her time to heal and honoring and approaching intimacy another way?”
Whereas Sexxy Red has been very open about her sexual escapades, she continues to conceal the identity of her baby daddy. During an interview with Billboard after her performance at Rolling Loud, the 25-year-old explained that privacy is important to her.
When asked about why she wouldn’t say who her child’s father is, the 25-year-old replied: “Cause I don’t need anyone in my business — like why you want to be so nosy? Mind your fucking business.”
The rapper recently gave birth to her second child. During her pregnancy, she came close to revealing the identity of her partner after the two posed together for a maternity photoshoot, except his face was blurred out in the images posted online.
The Missouri native previously detailed how she managed to keep the pregnancy to herself, saying: “When nobody knew I was pregnant, I’d be in the back room like tryna suck my stomach in or wear clothes to show that I wasn’t pregnant.
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“And I had to practice my breathing — like before I’d go on stage, I had to hold my stomach in and look at myself and be like, ‘Can they tell?’ Once I just was like, ‘Okay I can’t keep hiding it ’cause it hurt to just be on stage all day holding your stomach in.’ So I’m like, ‘Just forget about it.’”
