Big Scarr’s girlfriend has called out his family and friends for allegedly shooting a music video at his funeral.
The woman shared a strongly-worded message addressed to the late rapper’s loved ones on Instagram on Monday (January 9), criticizing them for their “disgusting” and “embarrassing” behavior following his death.
Scarr’s siblings made headlines earlier this week for accusing Gucci Mane — who signed the 22-year-old rapper to his New 1017 Records — of stiffing the family over the cost of his funeral, before a number of his relatives appeared to film a music video at Scarr’s funeral.
“Y’all really FAILED Alex as a family & friends,” Scarr’s girlfriend wrote. “Y’all aired ALL his personal business out, from the preparation to the funeral till afterwards. WTF happened to privacy?? Flexing in his jewelry like it’s yours.”
She added: “PUT HIS SHIT UP! He not here to put it on you so don’t wear his shit. EMBARRASSING as hell. It’s only one BIG SCARR he can never be duplicated! Can’t even grieve in peace! Too much clout chasing going on! Shit disgusting!”
Big Scarr’s brother and collaborator Quezz Ruthless was spotted shooting a music video at the funeral, which took place in Memphis, Tennessee earlier this week. A video that surfaced online showed Quezz standing outside of the funeral home surrounded by his entourage, which appeared to include Scarr’s father.
The video arrived after Quezz called out Gucci Mane for allegedly ghosting Scarr’s family after promising to cover the funeral costs.
“You say to them you finna pay for the funeral, then you lie,” he claimed in an Instagram Live. “You didn’t have to lie! You ain’t have to go ghost either, cuh. It was gonna get paid for either way. You could’ve just said you ain’t have the money. You don’t get no type of respect for that, cuh.”
He added: “The minute that them folks called yo phone to see if you gon’ pay for the funeral, you blocked them. That’s not real, cuh. You ain’t straight. You only trying to act all real. You posted Scarr talking ’bout some long live — bruh, you ain’t do nothing, cuh.”
Quezz also claimed Gucci asked Scarr’s family to return the rapper’s 1017 chains, but told the So Icy Boyz boss he won’t be returning them.
“You not getting them chains, bruh,” he said. “You ain’t even text and check on the family, but you text about some chains. I can’t believe you, cuh! You betta not come trying to get these chains. We gon’ have a real problem.”
Gucci’s wife Keyshia Ka’Oir came to his defense and shared two receipts from N.J. Ford & Sons Funeral Home totaling $20,000. Ka’Oir wrote that everyone should just “leave her husband alone,” and that the payment was made directly to the funeral home.
“20k total @laflare1017 what u did to these folks man,” she wrote before adding in a separate post: “We also sent flowers & not even a thank u” along with a broken heart emoji.
Big Scarr’s sister Alexandra Woods, who had initially joined in on dragging Gucci for his alleged lack of involvement with the funeral, replied to Ka’Oir and claimed that the money barely made a dent.
“That 10K ain’t help with nothing but obituaries and flowers, boo,” Woods said on Instagram Live. “My brother worth more than 10K.”
She added: “Yea, Gucci sent $10,000 and somebody else on another team. So, it was $20,000 in all. And we ain’t get the flowers. I don’t give a fuck what nobody say…Anyway, the funeral getting paid for regardless. That little-ass money. That’s why we said he didn’t help…That wasn’t enough. My brother funeral was 60K in all.”
Big Scarr was at his girlfriend’s home in Memphis when he died after ingesting a lethal amount of prescription pills on December 22, 2022. He signed to Gucci Mane’s New 1017 Records two years prior released his debut mixtape, Big Grim Reaper, in April 2021.
The project boasted features from his cousin Pooh Shiesty, Gucci Mane, Foogiano, Tay Keith, and more. It peaked at No. 25 on the Billboard 200 chart after selling 22,000 copies in its first week.
Imagine someone paying 1/3rd of a funeral cost for someone else’s family, out of the kindness in their heart, and they get mad looool. You don’t deserve shit if you don’t have a shred of gratitude in your bones.
Exactly and she basically saying they spent the $20,000 on paper and grass!!!! “Obituaries and flowers” I would have took my $20,000 back and been done with it.
Imagine someone paying 1/3rd of your family member’s funeral cost and getting mad they won’t cover the whole thing. Lol the audacity. If you don’t have a shred of gratitude in your body you don’t deserve any help.
Stop y’all want money period just stop because you could have buried him for 5000 he doesn’t know in from Memphis Hollywood born and raised
My question is why was this nigga worth 60k for his funeral😕😕😕 Idk how much funerals go for in Memphis, but where I’m from 20k gon get you a very nice decent funeral frfr
Like big scarr girlfriend said on Instagram scarr family is disgusting and embarrassing in my own words I will say they are ungrateful human beings sad sad to see the attitude from that family is just funky
Blacks don’t know how to spend money that’s why
And you clearly haven’t had an English class.
I can’t wait for this generations kids to grow up and do good, bc this gen are narcissistic self entitled brats. I teuly have hope that their kids will do some good. And even more so their grandkids. Y’all have without a doubt cast away any belief that other gems sucked…kill the social web and all will return to humanity
I totally agree with killing the social web. That’s definitely one of the problems.